How to support a teen with depression

Being there for your depressed adolescent

The teenage years can be a challenging time for both parents and adolescents alike. Amidst the hormonal changes, academic pressures, and the pursuit of identity, some teens may find themselves grappling with depression. At Summit, we work with many teenagers who struggle with depression and help parents learn how to support teens with depression. As a parent, it can be heart-wrenching to witness your child struggle, but your support and understanding can make a significant difference in their journey towards recovery. In this blog post, we’ll explore ways in which parents can help their teens navigate through the complexities of depression.

1. **Recognize the Signs:**

   The first step in helping your teen is recognizing the signs of depression. These may include changes in sleep patterns, appetite, academic performance, social withdrawal, irritability, or a lack of interest in previously enjoyed activities. If you notice persistent changes in behavior or mood, it’s crucial to open up a dialogue with your teen.

2. **Initiate Open Communication:**

   Creating a safe and non-judgmental space for your teen to express their feelings is essential. Initiate open conversations about their emotions, concerns, and experiences. Avoid being overly critical or dismissive and instead, listen actively and empathetically. Validate their feelings and reassure them that you are there to support them.

3. **Seek Professional Help:**

   Depression is a complex mental health issue that often requires professional intervention. Encourage your teen to speak with a mental health professional such as a therapist or counselor. Offer to help them find resources, schedule appointments, and accompany them to sessions if they feel comfortable. If you are considering enrolling your child in a residential treatment program, sometimes working with an educational or therapeutic consultant can be helpful as you navigate through the process of selecting a treatment program. 

4. **Educate Yourself:**

   Take the time to educate yourself about depression, its symptoms, and treatment options. Understanding the challenges your teen is facing can help you provide more informed and empathetic support. There are numerous reputable online resources, books, and support groups available for parents of teens dealing with depression.

5. **Encourage Healthy Habits:**

   Depression can be exacerbated by unhealthy lifestyle choices. Encourage your teen to maintain a balanced diet, engage in regular physical activity, and ensure they get enough sleep. These habits can positively impact mood and overall well-being.

6. **Promote a Supportive Environment:**

   Foster a supportive home environment where your teen feels loved and accepted. Encourage positive social connections with friends and family. Establish routines that provide stability and predictability, which can be reassuring for someone struggling with depression.

7. **Monitor Medication if Prescribed:**

   In some cases, medication may be prescribed as part of the treatment plan. If so, ensure that your teen takes their medication as directed and attend follow-up appointments with healthcare professionals to monitor progress.

8. **Be Patient and Persistent:**

   Recovering from depression is a gradual process that requires time, patience, and persistence. Be prepared for setbacks, and remind your teen that healing is a journey with both ups and downs. Offer your unwavering support and celebrate even small victories along the way.


Supporting a teenager through depression is undoubtedly a challenging task, but as a parent, your love and understanding can be a beacon of light in their darkest moments. By fostering open communication, seeking professional help, and creating a supportive environment, you can play a vital role in your teen’s journey towards healing and recovery. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and together, you and your teen can overcome the challenges of depression. We at Summit are always here to help you and your teenager through these difficult times. Don’t hesitate to reach out to admissions today if you have any questions about residential mental health treatment for your teen.